"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I get a blazer for prom?

Konada

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Thoughts? I currently don't have one.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You rarely go wrong with a blazer. It greatly complements a dress shirt, with or without a tie.

If you get one, it goes without saying that you want to go to a hip store that caters to young guys. Don't get one at a generic department store, unless you want to look like a 50 y/o college professor lol.

So yes, if you find a stylish one, yes blazers rock. Find a stylish straight guy sales associate who isn't too old or better yet a young hottie salesgirl to help you if you need advice at the store.
 

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Got a perfect fit blazer for an absolute steal of $80. (Normal price is between 100-300). Good shoulder width, sleeves not baggy, V-shape contour. Awesome!

Thanks for the advice Mike!
 
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