"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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should i follow up??

djaus111000

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big house party on the weekend, about 150 people or so, kissed 2 girls but didn't follow up and get a number, and they left early whilst i was out getting some air, what do you think about following up through a mutual friend and getting a number?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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arutha

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Nah I wouldn't.. Thats like looking them up in the phonebook. Wait until you see them again to get the number directly from them.

An alternate is if they use IM, you can get way with adding them to that because people get random additions all the time.. Might not be worth it, and may be a bit hard to do. Could be worth it.
 

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yeh i could easily get her on IM, i just found another mutual friend, but i think ill tide it out till another party where im sure she will be
 

MidnightResistance

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Dude I LOVE house parties.
It's so easy to pull chicks there.

Sadly the majority of house parties I went to were 'stoner' parties, where everyone sat in a corner dribbling.
But the few proper house parties I went to were great.


The last one, I didn't know a soul, so I stayed in the kitchen with some people, eating all the food and got really drunk.
Towards the end of the night this chick in a shiny silver dress walks out into the garden, through the kitchen.
My friend looks at me, smile and nods.
I take this (in my drunken state) to mean "That chick thinks you're hot", when in reality he meant 'this is really nice cake'.

So I march out into the garden after her, give her a hug from behind, saying she looked cold. She turns, I smile, we smoke her cigarette together, then make out.
She spends the rest of the evening with me, I get her number.
All good.

Of course when I called her a two days later she didn't answer or get back to me...but oh well.
 

djaus111000

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yeh man house parties are the best, this one was great, so many new groups of chicks i hadn't met before there, shame i was too drunk to think about getting numbers and doing a bit of networking....damn......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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