should i fight people who piss me off

[blasterkid1]

Im a sophomore in high schoolandima typically nice guybutive beenfeelinglike since i am nice people thinks its oktotreatme like****because imthe type ofguys that avoids confrontation. Im prettyscared of fighting but recently im starting toget sick of it. People have been pissing me off lately and ive been feeling like they deserve a good *** whooping. Im 15, 6'4, 230 lbs andso fari can bench 200lbsfive times. Even with all that im still scared of fighting. The last time i have been in a fight was in 4th grade. This year i feel like i need to teach some *******s a lesson. So should i fight and if so how do i get over my fear.

 

[DanZy]

No.

 

[Alvafe]

shear strenght means nothing in a fight, 3 things you need to know if you go for it can you take the heat? are you sure you can take what can happen after? are you sure you can win?

if people are pissing you off start to break then using words, normally that fool who loves to piss you off is easy to annoying and normally do so to remove the focus on him so no one notice his shame on his things. start to read this people and annoy the hell on then enough for then to try to start the fight after they toss the first punch even if you break his arm you can say its self defense

 

[switch]

i was a goody two shoes just like you OP.confrontation is the best way to deal with this.put them in their place.
show them that you dont care if they will smash your skull,you WILL fight back.that if they hit you,they might win but they HAVE to pay a price.

i take bullying very seriously bro.wish i had someone tell me this stuff when i was in school.


it depends on the guy who disses you.

if he is bigger than you,as in more muscular, then smile,walk away.

but if its some skinny faggot who cant lift a shopping bag?....then sh!t WILL go down

no skinny faggot is gonna look down on you, you hear me?
when he disses you, do the following:

1.stop whatever you are doing
2.stare into his eyes
3.start psyching yourself up.
4.get close to him BUT dont touch him
5.tell him something like "ill ram ur ass with a lacross stick..." say it with a firm, loud but controlled voice.like a mafioso.
make your own lines. my favourite is"i will KILL you , and no,i dont give a fvck if i get the electric chair, BUT YOU WILL DIE, TODAY.
95% of all asshats will back down at this point and never cross you again.

it helps to shout, and practice especially if your voice starts to shiver in a tense situation. practice getting the blood into your head so it'll turn red.

a red faced angry man , is the biologic equivalent of"you are in deep sh!t".
squats and deadlifts will help with that.

STAND UP FOR YOURSELF BRO.

 

[Skyline]

It sounds like you're just not standing up for yourself. Theres a difference between fighting and standing up for yourself. Its like watching porn and actually fvcking scenario.

Anytime someone does something you dont like or gives you sh*t you go up to them and tell them calmy and firmly to basically stop. Most guys will either back down or if theyre stupid they will continue it, but you should still stand your ground. The chances of them actually swinging are low. Just stand your ground and you wont ever have to fight plus people wont give you sh*t.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Yeah, usually stay away from fighting unless in self-defence.

Remember, no one controls your emotions, but you.

Moreover, if you're so big and people still rash on you, then you probably want to take a look at your character. Why do you think this is? Try to sit down and write something out and work on it.

Lastly, it could simply be that you're misinterpreting people's actions and you just get mad easily. In that case, work on your temper. Acceptance of the present helps a ton in controlling negative emotions.

 

[ladiesman217]

Stand up for yourself. Don't let them push you around, once they realize you're done taking their **** they will back off. Or if they take that as a challenge, laugh it off. Say he says you have a small ****, come back with something funny like "The other day I got pulled over so I whipped my 9mm out.. Once he stopped laughing I got a ticket for indecent exposure." Don't let it bother you bro, they just do it to get a rise out of you

*rubs forehead twice*

 

[Driggs]

Fighting is absolutely NOT a good idea.

Be very, VERY careful about punching people in the face. You have enough size and weight to knock someone unconscious very easily. No amount of ego boost or self esteem that you might gain from winning a fight is worth doing five years in jail because you killed some loudmouth.

A slap to the face, delivered with extreme force, takes the fight out of most people and has little risk of knocking them out. If you use slaps as a self defense blow they should be performed with your arm mostly loose and relaxed, with most of the force coming from body rotation. You can practice this blow on a pad fastened to a tree or a basement support column. Do it until you can shake the house.

 

[Watawata]

This thread is pretty old and Im sure he already got the advice he needed a long time ago.

 

[idoloveromance]

If you fight, even though their really not nice and mean people, you should make sure that you can face the consequences.