"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
should i even text back
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
Lol. It just seems as if it were that, a text asking about what she missed in class. Nothing more, nothing less. Don't get a woody up over nothing, brah!
Capt.Jack Sparrow
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Taking actions is the mans role. She gave you a small hint, it could be nothing, but it's enough for you to start acting like a man.
Being a player and letting the chick come to you is one thing. Not ceasing the moment is another, and that's what you're doing. By not replying you are not being a "jerk" in her head. You are just being boring.
The word "should" implies it's a hint, not a command.JPlaya said:
Just like Jack Sparrow says, don't make a big deal out of it - reply and see what happens. Tell her something like that she missed your company, or make a joke about that you had a test.
