"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I Even Bother?

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Jerky Boi

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Alright guys, here's the situation.

I wasn't planning on asking for advice about this but I'd decided I should. I've been interested in this girl for a while. We've kinda been talking off an on and I haven't really gotten to spend much time with her in the past. She calls me up the other day and tells me that she wanted to talk to me because we haven't talked in forever. The reason I quit talking to her in the past was just because I've heard from her friends that she's really into this other guy that she's been dating off and on since like 4th grade. From what I've heard, he's the typical jerk type. Just treats her like trash and wants to be "friends with benefits." I heard this from her friend that I talk to a lot. Yet, she still persists in trying to go out with him. You know how girls are ;P I'm not really into the whole competition over a girl thing but to tell you the truth, I'm pretty damn sure I can blow this guy outta the water if I ever got the chance to hang out with her more. She's always telling me if I ever go out to the lake, to let her know so we can get together.

I'm not necessarily doubting my abilities, I'm just curious if you guys think I should go for it or not. I mean from what this girl's told me and what I've heard from her friend, she thinks this guy's the greatest guy in the world. Wont ever make any sense to me. In the past she's told me that she liked me and I'm pretty sure she still does. Any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think she's worth going after?

If you think she's worth going after then do it. Ask her out and blow this guy outta the water. If you don't then you will spend your time regretting it. Besides, worst case scenario, if things don't go as you hope then just remember that it's a learning experience, a minor setback. Don't be discouraged if she says no. Besides, if she is still interested in you, as you say, then she WONT say no.

If you don't think she's worth going after then go get some food and approach some more women!

You know more about the fine points of the situation more than any of us do so the decision is up to you. Hopefully this helps put things in perspective. You also might wanna consider whether or not her off and on relationship with this guy is on or off at the moment.
 
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