"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DarthJuan

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I'll try and condense this:

-I'm about 85-90% getting over one-itis with a girl i use to date.
-i'm exhausted with all her drama and I'm getting as far away as possible.
-she can be an ultra-bytch so some people are spreading really nasty rumors about her.
-she doesn't want to speak to me anymore because she thinks i'm still super clingy and jealous.

So should i even bother helping her out one last time before I sever all ties completely?
Or should i just let her deal on her own?

As it stands right now, I'm just going to move on with my life and let her deal with it on her own.
But there's a little part of me that would like to help her because I don't think she deserves this reputation. She does deserve something bad for all the crap she gives everyone else. But not something that's made up.


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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musclyjerk

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Don't be a chump. Move on! If she requests your help tell her that's something she's gotta deal with on her own for acting how she does/being how she is.

I dont care if she's cutting herself and crying on the phone to you. Move the hell on.

Don't reward her for being an ultra-bytch. Sheesh.

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Last Man Standing

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Hello, to Captain save a bbiittcchhyy ho"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are a fool to think such!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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