"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should i dump her or not?

djthiago1

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Girl in my class is my plate. I can't really straight up dump her because she helps me a lot with school "stuff".
BUT. She's broken too many promisses, and i'm tired of it.
Do i keep banging her till next semester when i'll be gone to another city, or do i quit hooking up with her right now?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sunnykhatri736

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She is not your GF bro. So chill. She is ****ing you and helping you with your school stuff.
What else a guy need from a woman ?
Sex and his work is getting done.
Its perfect bro.
Keep ****ing her till next semester.
Never get attached with woman atleast not before a year or more. Whatever she does it shouldnt bother you as you are a man and you have other options. Dont react to her when she is breaking her promises as she is just a plate not gf.
Keep it casual and fun. Dont get serious about her .
 
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