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Should I drop out of the talent show?

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Well, I signed up for the talent show, but now I'm thinking of dropping out of it, because I don't have a band. While I could always do something solo, I don't know any songs that are good with solo guitars and it would probably be boring anyway. The positives of staying in this thing, is that even if I do something solo, that will still show a lot of people my skill on the guitar. The negative thing, is that I don't know any interesting songs that can be played with one guitar, that don't require singing(I can't sing for sh*t). Another thing is, is that the talent show tryouts are tommorow and I probably wouldn't have enough time to find a good song and practice it. So do you guys think I should drop out of this thing, or just do it solo?
 

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twotyme

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jus get a drummer and improvise or something like Steve Vai's "Bad Horsie"
 

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Or play a medley of classical tunes re-worked for the guitar. I have a version of Fur Elise in acoustic guitar that sounds frickin tits.
 

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If you've got skillz on the guitar when your solo, grab your balls and do the EXACT same thing on stage.
 

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hey man,

when i was in grade 10 i went to my school's talent show as a beatboxer.

Even though I sucked horribly (people were laughing and ****) i still got tons of props and my social proof went through the roof.

Then the year after i joined again but this time my skills were a lot better... so once again my social proof went up.

JUST DO IT MAN. even if you think it's gonna suck.. plus this is a once in a lifetime experience!
 

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1st of all...stop asking us what you should do all the fvckin time and make a decision like a goddamn man. 2nd, if you're willing to play guitar in front of people you're obviously good enough to improve or play a song that takes mad skill...get some fvckin balls.
 

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Well, I've decided that I am going to actually do this, even if I just play solo. Thing is, the talent show auditions are tommorow and I don't know any good songs that can be played solo on guitar, without singing.
 

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johnny be good? Everyone would enjoy nevertheless. There not much singing except saying "GO, JOHNNY, and GO."
 

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I entered my talent show and danced in my underwear like tom cruise in risky business

everyone loved it
 

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find something from jimi hendrix. if you can paly those solos people would give you all kinds of compliments.
 

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try Little Wing its a great solo guitar song and ppl will be amazed
 

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Well for the talent show I'm basically going to do what you guys have suggested, since I really don't know else to do. There's a good chance I'm not going to make the talent show, since the tryouts are tommorow and I only have tonight to practice, but hey, I'll try.
 

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Mctwist4 said:
If your going to play a solo then you should have a rhythm guitarist. If you can't get another guitarist then I suggest something classical.
Anything in particular?
 
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