Should I do it?

[JLW]

I'm in an LTR with a girl.


I don't know what to do.


Here's the inside scoop: I'm 17, this girl is 15. We've been in an LTR for about 3 months. We've been "fooling around" you know like i have fingered her on many occasions she has given me head, the usual. We're both virgins though.

today when i was REALLY fingering the hell out of her she was like "You can do anything you want with me. I want you so bad".

This was obviously implying that she wanted me to stuff her like a thanksgiving turkey (for those of you not getting that analogy, basically, she wanted me to **** her). Now at the time I couldn't do it cuz i didn't have a condom.

But this got me thinking. This girl wants me to **** her, but I'm really not sure of what to do. She's only 15, which is sort of a young age. Do you think she's mentally ready for that? I mean, I'm not gonna take advantage of her or anything, but do you think she's ready for it?

Second, what if I get her pregnant? Is there any way to make sure that the condom doesnt break/fall off? Should I use spermicidal lube if I do decide to **** her? Obviously, being 17 and 15, a child is the LAST thing that we need.


Advice/opinions appreciated.

 

[LiveStrong]

Well here's the scoop bro-
You have to look at the pros and cons to this situation.
The only pro to this situation is you get to **** her. Which is great. However, the first time generally is not great and can actually seem horrible. practice is needed.
The cons to this is 1.) the difference in age between the two of you. 2.) after you **** a virgin you'd better be prepared for what follows.(i.e. girl becomes super attached. breaking up with her may make her go a little crazy........etc.) 3.) like you mentioned ur stress regarding an accidental conception...well..information on condoms and what not can be found in the DJ bible..

Thats all i got for you man. GL.

 

[JLW]

thanks livestrong. i'll have to think about this

 

[Tomatoes]

3 in 10 girls lose their virginity before they are 16. 16.7 is the average age for losing your virginity.

Basically JLW...You are 17. She is 15. Thats fair game. I dont think you would **** this girl up by having sex with her. Shes said shes cool with it. As for her getting pregnant. You are over reacting. Use a condom and im sure you will be fine. Other option would be for her to go on the pill. (Yes she can get it from her local GP at 15 without parental consent.) Thats 99.9% sure so she wont be getting pregnant.

You are worring to much....

If your both virgins thats good terriorty because you will both be crap at sex and it will take a few times for you to get it right.