Should I delete them from msn, ect...

[SharinganUser]

I chat online with babes ALL day, Napolean.

lol, No, seriously I am wondering I should just quit with the whole online thing. I took down my dating site profile and I just go there for the forums and trolling. Most of the women on my msn are people that I've never met and there is one or two that I've met once.

One asked if I was going to be back in Dawson, where I met her, after I get back from a trip oversea's. I said, "yeah, not 'til may or so. Are you going to visit me?" She replied "uh, no." Then "Sorry but I have to go now. Bye."

Then I couldn't help but think of the time when we met, there was this argentinian cyclist, that was getting some kino with her. That didn't bother me so much as the fact that this moron kept calling me a baby because I am 23 and he was 36 or something. Didn't help that I hadn't slept in 2 days and was completely off my game. Last time, I talked with her she said he was going to visit her.

So a young, future millionaire, that is in decent shape and has a sense of humor as sharp as a samurai sword, can't seem to get as much play as some old long haired arrogant geezer cyclist? wtf??

Anyway after she left town I pretty much nxt'd her and started chasing a new girl, but I decided to keep in contact with her for practice flirting over msn. I do most of my flirting as a practice over the internet, sort of to keep my flirting muscle strong. I used to be really shy, but not any more and that exercise helped a lot, especially since I spend a good chunk of time away from the city, aka hot asian chicks.

I am starting to think that I need to stop doing that and just rely on the real world. I am at the point where a woman has actually complimented me on an approach and I can approach even if my friends are watching.

Besides, I am at a point in my life where I don't really think dating is all that important and can be a lot more trouble than it should be. I'd much rather spend time with a cool girl, than someone who I want as a hook up. Two, very cool/hot women that I got to meet this summer told me to relax, open up, and not to worry because it will happen (getting a gf, laid whatever lol). I took that lesson to heart.

Anyway, this is getting off topic. I think tomarrow I going to go through my msn and delete/block some users. Msn, the internet in general has been a huge distraction and to much of a crutch. Talking to people you are probably never going to see again(or ever even met) just doesn't seem like a viable idea anymore.

What are your thoughts?

 

[Ace of Flames]

I used to do this sorta thing. I had 3-4 chicks I'd flirt with online quite often. I think it really did help my flirting and conversation skills, because I learned to think fast. But there's only so much you can do without being physically there. You have to cut back eventually. Now, I only talk to about 3 people through AIM regularly.

 

[SharinganUser]

Good point.

 

[rushing dude 123]

yeh it does help u think fast like ace said and witty, but man its best if u jus do the real thing, because they r totally different. Talking to women online is easy, taking to them in real life is harder. I am also going to cut back because its 1 pm and i jus woke up because i was chatting to some chick on msn. So no don't delete them, but jus use it less. Go out to gym or any activity u enjoy or even get a early nights sleep and get ready for a early start the next day.

Good luck man, this cud b the start of something wonderful in ur life, change can b a good thing.