"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I continue to see her?

movistar

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I've been in a relationship with this girl since last December. We started off super hot and have had a pretty good relationship for about six months, I felt as I was getting a little bored. She was always been there for me, as I had a rough year. I started taking her for granted a bit, but I also felt her attitude was a little negative at times, which started the process of me becoming distant. I have a daughter that she has totally jumped in with and loves having outings with her. Fast forward to today, and I can see the interest level has dropped. We have discussed seeing other people before and decided we would do that. Neither of us actually did it and continued to see each other pretty frequently. She has started wanting to go out more now. She doesn't see me as much but still wants to be affectionate and have sex. She says she still really enjoys sex with me. Here is the problem, now that she has pulled away a bit I'm feeling a bit AFC and I have been questioning her actions and even accused her of lying last night. He care free attitude has sucked me in and now I'm wanting to chase her and wanting to be mr cupid.
Whats the best course here? Continue having relations with her? She is still showing affection and sex and having a good time. Or will I be hurt by this
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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movistar

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thanks for the response...
we were both serious at one point, then just she was serious, now I'm the one chasing again. She is still hanging out just A LOT less.
I know that I should just keep cool, i hope blowing up last night wasn't the nail in the coffin.
 
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