"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I continue to see her?

movistar

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I've been in a relationship with this girl since last December. We started off super hot and have had a pretty good relationship for about six months, I felt as I was getting a little bored. She was always been there for me, as I had a rough year. I started taking her for granted a bit, but I also felt her attitude was a little negative at times, which started the process of me becoming distant. I have a daughter that she has totally jumped in with and loves having outings with her. Fast forward to today, and I can see the interest level has dropped. We have discussed seeing other people before and decided we would do that. Neither of us actually did it and continued to see each other pretty frequently. She has started wanting to go out more now. She doesn't see me as much but still wants to be affectionate and have sex. She says she still really enjoys sex with me. Here is the problem, now that she has pulled away a bit I'm feeling a bit AFC and I have been questioning her actions and even accused her of lying last night. He care free attitude has sucked me in and now I'm wanting to chase her and wanting to be mr cupid.
Whats the best course here? Continue having relations with her? She is still showing affection and sex and having a good time. Or will I be hurt by this
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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movistar

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thanks for the response...
we were both serious at one point, then just she was serious, now I'm the one chasing again. She is still hanging out just A LOT less.
I know that I should just keep cool, i hope blowing up last night wasn't the nail in the coffin.
 
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