"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I continue pursuit?

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Ok theres this fine ass girl in my class and I just started college 1 week ago. Last week we talked a little but it was about school stuff b/c she was sitting next to me. Today she sat with her friends and after class I approached her and asked her if she wanted to get something to eat. She said she had homework to do and after her next class which ended at the same time mines did she had a hair appointment. I said ok and left and went back to my dorm. When it was time to go back to class I went into the building and she was still there doing her homework.(to my surprise) I had to walk by her to go to the stairs and when I looked at her she smiled and I smiled back.

What I want to know is if she is interested and if I should still try after her? What is the nature of my situation?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You asked her out, and she said "sorry, I'm washing my hair"?

This is not a good sign. It's a numbers game, try another girl.
 

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I could use different points of view on this delicate situation
 
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