"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I continue pursuit?

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Ok theres this fine ass girl in my class and I just started college 1 week ago. Last week we talked a little but it was about school stuff b/c she was sitting next to me. Today she sat with her friends and after class I approached her and asked her if she wanted to get something to eat. She said she had homework to do and after her next class which ended at the same time mines did she had a hair appointment. I said ok and left and went back to my dorm. When it was time to go back to class I went into the building and she was still there doing her homework.(to my surprise) I had to walk by her to go to the stairs and when I looked at her she smiled and I smiled back.

What I want to know is if she is interested and if I should still try after her? What is the nature of my situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You asked her out, and she said "sorry, I'm washing my hair"?

This is not a good sign. It's a numbers game, try another girl.
 

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I could use different points of view on this delicate situation
 
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