Bluebird00
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Novice, in need of advice. I was recently overseas (LA, USA) for a three week trip. I'm 17, and will be moving next year. Over there a met a girl (16, HB7), we met up, took her to a party and got a BJ. She slept over at this party with me, and drove home the next morning. I then went to SF, and while I was there she text me, just small talk, little excuses to talk. She told me she liked me, but didn't want to **** since I would be leaving in a few weeks and didn't want to get too attached.
When I get back to LA, I invite her over again. Get BJ, she sleeps over, she buys breakfast.
Couple nights later, I was staying w/ a couple friends, they went out to the gym (didn't want to pay gym membership until I move), so I txt her, she was out with friends (1 girl, 2 gay guys). I met up with them. We then went back to her friends house (the 2 guys left). Made-out, the friend's father was pissed I was there at 1am, I left. I'm now back home (Oz) and won't be back until January (when I move to LA).
She was constantly crying, sad I was leaving. After first night together, she wanted to have an open relationship, and date when I got back. I said no, we can be **** buddies when I get back, but nothing more. After 2nd night together, she said everything closed but kissing. I was cold about that idea, and said sure, but can't promise anything more than fwb when I get back.
After the third night, I was flirting with friend, congratulating her on achievements (this girl has done it all, can't say much more without giving away who it is). So just before I left, she wanted the relationship completely closed. I agreed. And promised we're pretty much going out, but don't want anything official until I get back. She was posting photos of us on her Twitter, and Snapchat Story, us kissing, in bed, etc. So I guess being w/ an Aussie is social proof.
Anyway, from what I've read on here, and her initial reluctance for an exclusive relationship, that she will cheat. She claims she MAY have only had sex one time (she doesn't know if it went in, I'm sure it did). Doesn't seem like a slut, and saw a past hookup of hers, as arrogant as it sounds, I'm much better.
She's currently overseas, helping poor kids, so only spoken a few times since I left. I want to make this work, but don't want to waste my time if there is a decent chance it will end badly. Plus her friend could be extremely helpful to me (ridiculously well connected). Would love all thoughts/advice.
When I get back to LA, I invite her over again. Get BJ, she sleeps over, she buys breakfast.
Couple nights later, I was staying w/ a couple friends, they went out to the gym (didn't want to pay gym membership until I move), so I txt her, she was out with friends (1 girl, 2 gay guys). I met up with them. We then went back to her friends house (the 2 guys left). Made-out, the friend's father was pissed I was there at 1am, I left. I'm now back home (Oz) and won't be back until January (when I move to LA).
She was constantly crying, sad I was leaving. After first night together, she wanted to have an open relationship, and date when I got back. I said no, we can be **** buddies when I get back, but nothing more. After 2nd night together, she said everything closed but kissing. I was cold about that idea, and said sure, but can't promise anything more than fwb when I get back.
After the third night, I was flirting with friend, congratulating her on achievements (this girl has done it all, can't say much more without giving away who it is). So just before I left, she wanted the relationship completely closed. I agreed. And promised we're pretty much going out, but don't want anything official until I get back. She was posting photos of us on her Twitter, and Snapchat Story, us kissing, in bed, etc. So I guess being w/ an Aussie is social proof.
Anyway, from what I've read on here, and her initial reluctance for an exclusive relationship, that she will cheat. She claims she MAY have only had sex one time (she doesn't know if it went in, I'm sure it did). Doesn't seem like a slut, and saw a past hookup of hers, as arrogant as it sounds, I'm much better.
She's currently overseas, helping poor kids, so only spoken a few times since I left. I want to make this work, but don't want to waste my time if there is a decent chance it will end badly. Plus her friend could be extremely helpful to me (ridiculously well connected). Would love all thoughts/advice.