"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This girl that I've been talking to for like I week now, we finally met yesterday for the first time. I'm 20, she's 17. She had me meet her at the library close to her house because her father was complaining about her not being home. Anywho, the day pretty much went great, we joked around a lot and ended up kissing a lot.

Now the thing is, that I think that she might be seeing someone else. But until we've been officially declared as exclusive, I shouldn't care if she is or not right? I know she's into me, because she calls me everyday, more than once during the day, talks about us doing things together; fun and sexual, etc... But the reason for my suspicion is because, like yesterday i asked her what she's doing today and she was about to tell me something then she stopped herself and said, nope can't tell you that, and proceeded to tell me whatever she had pllaned.

Either way, at this point, should I give a damn if she's messing with other guys or not? I'm thinking no, and just enjoy the ride even if we don't end up being exclusive.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PhilippeUrielAmancio said:
If you have to ask, you care.
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I'm not asking whether I care or not, I know that it's on my mind for various reasons. What I am asking though is should I? Should I slip it under the rug and not give a damn.
 
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I think you'll have to slip it under the rug to keep your sanity.

Just have fun with her and go along for the ride and see where it takes ya.
 
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I think if you two aren't exclusive, then you shouldn't care.

In fact, you should be seeing other women as well. Always have a backup girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MrMike said:
I think if you two aren't exclusive, then you shouldn't care.

In fact, you should be seeing other women as well. Always have a backup girl.
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That's what I was thinking aswell. I wish I could find a backup. I got to speaking with this girl through a friend, there's not much to work with in my neighborhood, I most likely just need to get out more.
 
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