"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I Call To Hang Out Today, Text, Or Wait?

Dante420

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I met another girl that seems wicked interested. She has a boyfriend, but he's young enough to be able to get over it. This girl wants to hang out with me. She's in my gym class, she was the first girl who caught my eye in the class so I made a goal to get her and I did, or so I think. She seems wicked interested, we talked all class yesterday and today (yesterday was the first day). She wants to hang out. Any advice for gaming on girls in a gym class setting?

We were suppose to hang out today but I missed school. Should I text her or call her after school? Or should I not do anything?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Werman

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I wouldn't do anything. If she is interested, she will call you and check up on you to find out why you missed school and couldn't hang with her afterwards.

If she doesn't show interest, move on.
 

Dante420

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Werman said:
I wouldn't do anything. If she is interested, she will call you and check up on you to find out why you missed school and couldn't hang with her afterwards.

If she doesn't show interest, move on.
I can't give up that easy, she already has shown plenty of interest. This is an easy grab, I'm just wondering if I should call her at all to follow through on our plans.
 

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let her know you are sick and therefore can't meet up with her. it's a common courtesy thing. you can add that you can't wait to own her in gym when you get back to school.
 

Dante420

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K.Pez said:
let her know you are sick and therefore can't meet up with her. it's a common courtesy thing. you can add that you can't wait to own her in gym when you get back to school.
That seems like a good way to side step and start a new plan eventually. I'll go with that if I call and she doesn't answer or something.

Yup, she didn't answer but I'll see her tomorrow in class. This girl seems perfect, I'm like so surprised she's so easy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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