"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I call or not?

mkang20

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Hi,

I met this one girl last week and we exchanged our numbers and email address. Since then, I've been talking to her online time to time, never having a long conversation. So far, I have no idea if she's interested in me or not. I'm contemplating if i should call her or not, but I also don't want to come off as desperate.

Any suggestion?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ace of Flames

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So basic, so simple..... so pitiful.

It doesn't matter. Call when you want. As long as you don't have a desperate tone over the phone, you shouldn't come across that way. And of course, don't say anything like, "so um.... like..... could we maybe... you know.... go out and like, do something sometime..... or something?"

Or, if you want the canned response to this question: Wait 3-4 days.
 

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You shouldn't be asking this question, honestly...

Online is cake, if she's interested in you, it should be easy to figure it out, if she's not, you drop her. Simple really.
 
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