Alright so i was recently dating this girl and we hit it off good and all... we had dated for about a month or two. But slowly we were like drifting away.. We didn't talk for about a week, and i was told she started talking with this other guy who btw is a real AFC!.. On myspace all of his comments to her are like i love you and i miss you and do you like me and all this pssy stuff, they even fake planned their own wedding already.. I'm jus wondering how the hell did she go for that guy instead of sticking with me.. According to what i've heard she said i was too ****y.. but it's wierd cuz i always had her laughing and whatnot.. So my question is should i call and try to sweet talk her into continuing with me or just be like if it's not even bothering me at all... I read the "how to get revenge" post on don juan tips and that was pretty inspiring to make it seem like if it was a good thing i'm not with her anymore so i can continue with my life... Hmm now that i think about it, i think i shouldn't even bother at all... but i dont know.. so wuts your alls take on this, what do you think i should do???
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Should I call or move on?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I would let it go. Trying to get a girl back is rarely worth it and is usually an exercise in futility. Your time is better spent finding new girls.
She is playing the field right now and could care less about you longing for her so you should do the same.
Start dating other chicks and forget about her.
If she wants to come back then let her attempt to make the effort (not you) but don't stop dating other chicks.
Start dating other chicks and forget about her.
If she wants to come back then let her attempt to make the effort (not you) but don't stop dating other chicks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
yea ok.. i'm gonna try to hook up with this other girl... i dont know if she has a bf but i'm still gonna try to get the number then move on from there...
what exactly do you mean by staying indifference?.. Oh and if she does call/txt me how do you suppose i react/respond to this?
Staying indifferent basically means you don't care whether or not she calls you, talks to you, or anything like that. Just be kinda whatever to anything she says or does. Anything she says or does doesn't affect you.