"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I recently moved to a new country. On my second day, i went to a bank to open an account. There was only one english speaking clerk, so they forwarded me to her. We talked a bit while she was signing papers, doing my account stuff etc. But there was no flirting.

After we're done, i asked a a couple of easy questions just to keep talking to her, and then to my surprise, she wrote down her mobile phone number and gave it to me, "well, i shouldn't do this... call me if you need any more help".

Now, does she want me to call her? I know, even if she did this for professional purposes only, i can call her, but she will be the only one i will talk to about anything concerning my bank account. so i don't want to mess this up.

Should i call her? and if i should, what should i say?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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fitterhappier said:
Now, does she want me to call her? I know, even if she did this for professional purposes only, i can call her, but she will be the only one i will talk to about anything concerning my bank account. so i don't want to mess this up.

Should i call her? and if i should, what should i say?
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Fvck yeah call her.

Look all you do is say that you are new to this country and would like someone to show you around and introduce you to people. This way the burden is on her to show you a good time and you don't have to worry about anything.

I am sure if she is a nice girl she would be happy to help you out and even if nothing happens between the two of you, at least you got your foot in the door and maybe something would happen with the new people she introudces you too.
 
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she saw your bank account.....$$$

i maybe wrong considering you may have just put in enough money to just start an account.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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