"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I recently moved to a new country. On my second day, i went to a bank to open an account. There was only one english speaking clerk, so they forwarded me to her. We talked a bit while she was signing papers, doing my account stuff etc. But there was no flirting.

After we're done, i asked a a couple of easy questions just to keep talking to her, and then to my surprise, she wrote down her mobile phone number and gave it to me, "well, i shouldn't do this... call me if you need any more help".

Now, does she want me to call her? I know, even if she did this for professional purposes only, i can call her, but she will be the only one i will talk to about anything concerning my bank account. so i don't want to mess this up.

Should i call her? and if i should, what should i say?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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fitterhappier said:
Now, does she want me to call her? I know, even if she did this for professional purposes only, i can call her, but she will be the only one i will talk to about anything concerning my bank account. so i don't want to mess this up.

Should i call her? and if i should, what should i say?
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Fvck yeah call her.

Look all you do is say that you are new to this country and would like someone to show you around and introduce you to people. This way the burden is on her to show you a good time and you don't have to worry about anything.

I am sure if she is a nice girl she would be happy to help you out and even if nothing happens between the two of you, at least you got your foot in the door and maybe something would happen with the new people she introudces you too.
 
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she saw your bank account.....$$$

i maybe wrong considering you may have just put in enough money to just start an account.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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