Should I Call Her Out Or Not?

[orbion2013]

guys i have another thread on here.. so i have this plate, bit of a naughty girl.

100% i do not want a relationship with her... been seeing her 4 weeks, things going pretty smooth, lots of sex, she is up for 3sums, 4sums etc

she is a plate worth keeping.. all tho i do not trust her!

anyhow things been going smooth untill a few days ago... i sent her a text & asked her about a situation she was trying to sort out... and i got no reply back from her

she didn't contact me again for nearly 2 days... i thought she had gone ghost on me... i didn't lose my sh@t tho... just carried on... made no attempt to contact her...

in the end she gave in & texted me last night... i think maybe she wanted me to panic and start texting her, wondering where she has gone!

anyhow her excuse was, she had been a bit ill & then the next day she was busy with work etc etc and busy with her kids!

horse sh@t.... it takes one minute to quickly text someone back.. she was at work, she gets a lunch break & other breaks

hell she could have texted me back, sat on the f@cking toilet...]

now i don't expect her to be texting me all the time... no way!!!

i just found it rude & disrespectful that it took her 2 days to get back to me, when i had specifically asked her a question in that text


so my question... do i call her on this & let her know it was rude of her, to take that long to text me???

should i let her know, that i won't put up with that kinda crap & if she aint happy about it... she can walk??

if i don't call her out... she might think i,m a spineless puzzy & she can get away with ignoring me for even longer next time.. or ignore me whenever she wants, as there is no concequences

or should i remain aloof & calm & act like nothing happened & i am not bothered about not hearing from her????


call her out... or not???

thing is i want to keep this plate on board, untill i secure the next one!

i just don't want the drama & mind games

 

[MOTU]

Dude you have 3 thread on her, your mind isn't clear. And even I can smell your desperation. The only real advice for you here is to go NC and NEXT!!!

IF she contacts you and wants to fvck, fine, but wrap jr tight and wash good with anti bacterial soap.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

She sounds like a keeper ask her to be your wife and stop making the same thread over and over again about the same girl with a different story each time.

 

[orbion2013]

Dude you have 3 thread on her, your mind isn't clear. And even I can smell your desperation. The only real advice for you here is to go NC and NEXT!!!

IF she contacts you and wants to fvck, fine, but wrap jr tight and wash good with anti bacterial soap.

dude my mind is very clear... she is already texting me... i just think maybe i should call her out on her b@ll****

 

[El Suave]

Orbion, I have one that does stuff like that. Not to that extent, no way. She acts like she doesn't have time to reply to texts right away, doesn't call when she says she will...So what? I started doing the same thing to her, but not to get revenge or prove a point, simply because my interest level dropped hard due to what she does.
I'm sure that this will bring her level way up, although that is not my goal. I could care less.
I had plenty of women before and there will be more. If this one drops off, so be it.

 

[sylvester the cat]

she's a plate not your gfriend. you have no business calling a plate out. they don't owe you anything. if you don't like it go NC.

 

[abe0]

Let it go....you sound a little needy. Lord....what is the big deal? Did not text you for a couple days....not the end of the world. You need more plates so you do not have to be so focused on this one. Abe

 

[GADavid]

No. respond accordingly with your actions.

Unless you want to come off weak and want her to get defensive, never talk to a woman about anything serious.

 

[El Payaso]

Don't call her out on it. Just move on casually. Calling her out will just give her the confirmation that she got to you by going NC and she will know how to really get to you in the future by ignoring you and your questions.

Don't call her out unless you want to shift the balance of power over to her if you haven't already done that.

 

[VladPatton]

The forum has spoken. Let it go, it's not worth it. Just tear her snatcharoo up when the occasion rises, nothing more.

 

[orbion2013]

ok so i didn't call her out on it...

i just created some distance from her, kept my text msgs very short to her... i never initiate any text to her for a few days & i could tell it was cracking her up!


how do i deal with a situation like this if it happens again... say i text her & she does not get back to me for a couple of days?

next her? or just play her at her own game & take even longer to text her back?