"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I break it off with her?

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Here's the scenario: I'm in this "unofficial" relationship with this girl, we've been "together" for about a month and a half now, and we're essentially boyfriend/girlfriend without the title - she spends almost all her time with me and we are always hanging out. She took my virginity and we fvck usually twice a day or so in our college dorms - which was how I always wanted the girl to lose my v-card to; someone I could practice with and get better before being released back into the game. I'm definitely getting experience. The sex is great and I enjoy spending time with her, but she's a HB7.5 or so, and I know that I can do better.

Recently I've been getting these urges and even dreams of going out and actually being a college freshman and hooking up with a ton of hot girls (so far I've only hooked up with 6 or so, and that was in the first month of college). It's conflicting because I do like her, but at the same time she's hypersensitive about a lot of things and will get mad at me on a whim. What do you guys think I should do? Am I shooting myself in the foot by not just being a single guy and enjoying all of the drunk college pvssy for my first semester of my freshman year or should I realize that having an unofficial girlfriend that I can play videogames with a fvck every single day is a great thing and I shouldn't screw it up?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just keep her as a plate, and game some others - you've not had the relationship discussion yet, so you've got no commitment to her. It's down to what you want from her, if a relationship, wait for her to talk about it. If not then when she asks, just say you like things the way they are.
 
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