"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I bother meeting up with this chick or is this just a fail situation?

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So I started recently talking to this girl who I haven't seen in a real long time (more than a year and a half I think). I told a story about the last time we hung out at the bottom of this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175957

So yeah, we made tentative plans to meet up this week (just not sure which day yet). I know what we're doing though, I'm taking her to this nice new bar. But I don't know if I'm making a good move. I had some pretty strong feelings for this girl back in the day (everyone knew so she obviously knew). And I don't know if she's even single again. Advice guys?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No opinions guys? Really? Well then I'll just cancel things with her just in case. There's too much uncertainty here, and I'd rather not waste my time on her if nothing will come out of it.
 
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no one wants to click the link and read all that.

explain the situation briefly
 
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iliketennis said:
no one wants to click the link and read all that.

explain the situation briefly
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Basically this is the short form (it'll still be long). I've known this girl for a long time, 2 years ago we went out for her bday. Her bf didn't show up, lots of flirting between her and I. Her friends then left us alone at the club, flirting intensified, starting getting sexual (grinding, her rubbing my **** through my pants). I pussied out, and brought her to her house at the end of the night (and didn't even let me crash on her couch). The next day she called me to talk, I was tired and said I'd call her the next day. She then proceeded to ignore me for 7-8 months (not that I contacted her much). She got back in touch, we made plans to chill and I forgot and stood her up (lol, oops). She then went back to ignoring me til a couple of weeks ago. Sent a txt to her the other night, she wanted me to go clubbing with her, but it was on the opposite end of the city from me and I wasn't interested in being on the bus for an hour and a half. Said we should chill this week and she said yes. Now I'm thinking of canceling since I'm not even sure she's single and it's obvious she doesn't think of me as a friend.
 
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Well I canceled with her. I think it would have been a mistake anyway. But I find it disappointing that no one responded, yet a thread about some guy jerking off gets a billion responses. Guess this site is no longer useful to me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Scion said:
Well I canceled with her. I think it would have been a mistake anyway. But I find it disappointing that no one responded, yet a thread about some guy jerking off gets a billion responses. Guess this site is no longer useful to me.
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All due respect, buddy, it's not that interesting of a situation. Stop being so sensitive.

You hung out with a girl who had a boyfriend. You grinded on the dancefloor...TWO YEARS AGO...Nothing sexual happened beyond that. She ignored 90% of your attempts to contact her.

What do you expect people to say? You're not even sure if you want to pursue this chick. How are a bunch of strangers supposed to know how to instruct you. My apologies for the message board not being interested in your vague, non-sexual situation with this woman who you danced with 2 years ago.
 
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Whatever, this board has never been that useful to me. Have fun getting more advice from virgins.
 
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The usefulness is not found on the board but on the whole djbible. This board is just to ask about speficic and special situation you may find yourself in with a girl.
 
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