"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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should i bother going?

big weezy

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i picked up this tourist yesterday who's in town for a few days more, her travelling patner left so now she's travelling on her own.

tbh, it was a pretty passive pick up.. i feel more like im going to be her tourist guide than a lover, very much friendzoned.

i dont really want to waste my time, money, grief etc seeing her tomorrow night. should i bother going?

i dont really know how i'll turn it into a fvck fest, esp without spending money on drinks etc.. i dont want to go for the practise i've had enough of that, i already feel friendzoned and i dont see how without liquor i'd get her to put out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheJazz

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Make a move. Get rejected. Move on. Only one way to find out if it's worth pursuing or not innit! Or you know, you might not get rejected and this could be the start of something beautiful.
 
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