"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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should i bother going?

big weezy

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i picked up this tourist yesterday who's in town for a few days more, her travelling patner left so now she's travelling on her own.

tbh, it was a pretty passive pick up.. i feel more like im going to be her tourist guide than a lover, very much friendzoned.

i dont really want to waste my time, money, grief etc seeing her tomorrow night. should i bother going?

i dont really know how i'll turn it into a fvck fest, esp without spending money on drinks etc.. i dont want to go for the practise i've had enough of that, i already feel friendzoned and i dont see how without liquor i'd get her to put out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheJazz

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Make a move. Get rejected. Move on. Only one way to find out if it's worth pursuing or not innit! Or you know, you might not get rejected and this could be the start of something beautiful.
 
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