"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should i be worried?

salsipuedes

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The other day i was really nervous about a date with a beautiful woman i met, i was truly just losing it and plain unable to focus, we agreed to meet in a little bar and while i was there i ordered a double cognac straight and drank it inmediately, the drink calmed me down and i was able to be in complete control by the time she got there, obviosuly the date went well but i started thinking about the effect the alcohol had on me, i have always drank and never had a problem stopping, actually, i would say i drink far less than most of my friends, but i am wondering if i am just making too much a big deal out of nothing.

Guys?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes you are making a big deal out of nothing.
 
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