"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should i be worried?

salsipuedes

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The other day i was really nervous about a date with a beautiful woman i met, i was truly just losing it and plain unable to focus, we agreed to meet in a little bar and while i was there i ordered a double cognac straight and drank it inmediately, the drink calmed me down and i was able to be in complete control by the time she got there, obviosuly the date went well but i started thinking about the effect the alcohol had on me, i have always drank and never had a problem stopping, actually, i would say i drink far less than most of my friends, but i am wondering if i am just making too much a big deal out of nothing.

Guys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes you are making a big deal out of nothing.
 
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