"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This girl im seeing started changing her story.
At first she told me that she only had 6 bfs and slept with 5 of them. Now she randomly adds 3 random one night stands she had before she met me.

Now that I think about it she slept with me pretty easily...

She's only 22 and she sucks a mean ****, im impressed how good she was.

Should i be worried?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Worried? About her being great in bed?

Just be sure not to put emotions in it, and realise that if you reach a point of "commitment" it is probably the sex, and not "HER" that you commit to.
 
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Wrap it up.

Chicks generally only count serious LTRs as partners, not flings or ONS.

They don't teach "Chick Math" in school. See an example below...

2 serious bfs + 2 spring break hookups + 2 casual F-buddies + 1 drunken ONS in Vegas or on a cruise ship = I've only been with 2 guys

2 + 2 + 2 + 1 = 2 :)
 
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Haha yup chick math for sure. I forget the quote exactly but I heard something like "If you want the real number of sexual partners your girl has had you take the number she gave you and add 7 to it."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sucking a mean c*ck it's a skill that needed a lot of practice. Yes, you should be worried. If you only want to bang her, then you shouldn't.
 
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Unless you met a girl when she was like 15 and dated her for years since that point; you really have no way of knowing an accurate count of how many guys she's been with. Any girl you meet in her 20s and older is going to lie about how many guys she's been with.
 
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R u fvcking her---no worry
Is not savoring your d---that would b my primary concern over changing stories.

Telling u man, bishes will make bs and flake, not fvck, the ones that I did date didnt make it hard at all...
 
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tdotseoul said:
Should i be worried?
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about what? what do want from this girl an ltr, marriage, just sex?

at least she had sex with you pretty easily. thats better than being treated like an afc and making you wait months and months for sex.
 
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Im not worried about numbers... i mean my number is roughly 50+ so i would be a hypocrite. Im just worried she will be sleeping around as easily as she slept with me.

We are currently dating.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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