There is a very hot girl in my school she knows i exist but i never had a conversation with her/ hit on her, Everyday i see guys hit on her, where ever she is there is alot of guys with her. she is isn't a slut or anything she has a beautiful personality/very freindly and nice but i feel like i might not have a chance with her. Over all i am cool guy alot of people know me, but i don't know if i have enough to offer to her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Should i be intimated from Hot girls?
- Thread starter Joey23
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Borknagar
Master Don Juan
meh I don't find hot girls intimidating at all really, underneath the looks they are nothing special, at all. I don't usually approach them though, they usually have nothing good to offer, and usually too troublesome to try to get in the sack.
If it makes you feel any better, few people are successes in life. Most of the cool guys you see hitting on her will probably end up working in gas stations and as janitors. Some will be driven to follow their dreams.Joey23 said:
Point I'm trying to make is you don't know someone's value until after the fact. You could be a very valuable individual with so much to offer and even be a captain of your industry, or you can work at McDonald's for the rest of your life taking **** from people about salt on their fries.
Are you valuable? I can't say one way or another and nobody else can. But you can find out.
They are made of flesh and blood just like you, when you look at a hot girl you shouldnt be intimidated from her just like you shouldnt be intimidated from a Lamborghini.
What you should think is what it needs to have her and if you have that, wheter we talk about look,status,confidence or else.
If you realize you lack what it needs work to get it, improve your body at the gym (so also ur self confidence will) and work hard to improve your social position, take it as a motivation not a punishment.
And just like the Lamborghini I talked about before, she is not gonna make you a better man, so if you think "you suck" improve yourself in the core before looking for optionals.
What you should think is what it needs to have her and if you have that, wheter we talk about look,status,confidence or else.
If you realize you lack what it needs work to get it, improve your body at the gym (so also ur self confidence will) and work hard to improve your social position, take it as a motivation not a punishment.
And just like the Lamborghini I talked about before, she is not gonna make you a better man, so if you think "you suck" improve yourself in the core before looking for optionals.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
CJ 101
Don Juan
A Don Jaun should always stand out from the crowd, since you said that guys are always around her hitting on her then you should be the exception, talk to her in a neutral manner, have normal conversations with her and most importantly don't hit on her, cultivate familiarity and then slowly escalate from there.
True.CJ 101 said:
False. This contradicts the previous quote. Familiarity is boring to women. It's not the road to seduction.CJ 101 said:
To the OP, try just to picture what she looks like without makeup, eyebrow plucking, botox, hair dye, and fake boobs. Ordinary.