"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I be interested or Run?

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There is this computer Tech woman that works at my office. She has worked on my computer several times over the last month and we seemed to hit it off. She has already told me on her will that she was divorced. She also went fishing on me the following Monday after Fathers day. She asked me if I had a good fathers day weekend. I replied that I didnt have any children. She then replied Quote "Oh, your single then? I bet you are more of a loner/independant person & you live by yourself, right?" I said, yeah, your pretty much accurate there. Then she smiled at me and said her last boyfriend was like that too.

Now, Im really not sure how to take this. She is very attractive, I would give her an 8 easilly and a very down home personality. But Im not 100 % sure how to take this "Her last boyfriend was a loner thing"

If she is interested, Im not 100% sure if I should pursue her any further because I almost feel like she was comparing me to her last boyfriend..

Any input?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lookyoung

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Yeah I have input.
1. Please read the DJ bible. ( A person that posts something like this on the mature man forum really needs to get the basics down. Its obvious you don't have them down

2. Simply ask her out. Say hey you want to get together sometime?

3. Quit over analyzing. LIke the nike commercial says. JUST DO IT
 

jophil28

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Hey Leeman - she was talking to you right ? That means that she was interested. She ASKED you about yourself ,right ? That means that she was REALLY interested.. What were you waiting for ? Get her email pronto- ask her to go have some coffee . If you do not ACT she will assume that you are NOT available because you are -
1. Gay
2. Hate women
3. Scared of women
4. On some witness protection program.
5. Broke and sad
6. A loser who does not GET women's signals.

Women do not take it well when they send out one of their "I like you " signals and your UHF male radio receiver is not working.
They feel all rejected.

That old saying "Strike while the iron is hot " (or the pvssy is moist)
 

jophil28

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" My last boyfriend was a loner too."

The translation from femspeak -

I no longer have a boyfriend -I am single and available.
I like you because you and my boyfriend are similar -I like guys who are independent and loners.
I like YOU because you are also single and available.

She is giving you a front row seat and a free ticket, bud.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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lookyoung said:
Yeah I have input.
1. Please read the DJ bible. ( A person that posts something like this on the mature man forum really needs to get the basics down. Its obvious you don't have them down

2. Simply ask her out. Say hey you want to get together sometime?

3. Quit over analyzing. LIke the nike commercial says. JUST DO IT
:yes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good god man, if her words were an image it would be a runway with flashing lights.

Red team go!!!
 

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jophil28 said:
Hey Leeman - she was talking to you right ? That means that she was interested. She ASKED you about yourself ,right ? That means that she was REALLY interested.. What were you waiting for ? Get her email pronto- ask her to go have some coffee . If you do not ACT she will assume that you are NOT available because you are -
1. Gay
2. Hate women
3. Scared of women
4. On some witness protection program.
5. Broke and sad
6.@@@@@ A loser who does not GET women's signals.@@@@----->ME...LOL

I think i fall into number 6....LOL
 

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He wasn't asking whether or not she was interested. He was asking whether she was worth going out with.

Imo, she sounds like kind of a hor, but what the hell...you don't have much to lose by just trying her out. Just go for it.
 
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