"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I be afraid of grey hairs?

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I'm 31 and in the last year or two, I've been noticing more and more grey hairs coming up. I usually just pluck them out. But it's becoming increasingly frequent. I pluck new ones out almost every day in the mirror. I don't have them in great enough number for it to be any real inconvenience but my hair is almost black so any white hair stands out pretty well. I figure at a certain point, I'm just going to have to give up and stop plucking them out.

I don't know, maybe I shouldn't pluck them out and just accept it, but then I feel like I'm giving up my youth or something. I should at least be greatful that I haven't had any male pattern balding...yet anyway. Knock on wood.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I just noticed them in my beard, a good reason to shave.

Just for Men has been playing that same damn commercial for forever with Clyde Frazier and Keith Hernandez, 'no play for Mr. Gray.'

Maybe ask whoever cuts your hair?
 
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dude...youre lucky yuou arent like me...ive had a whole bunch of grey since i was like 15!! people say its from a like of pigments in hair or something....i have grey hair like a 40 y/o has grey...yeah its that bad...
 
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I don't understand why so many try to fight the natural graying and balding of their heads as they grow older as men
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I think you should do nothing. Accept it and embrace it. A lot of women find it sexy but if you are running after 18 YO, then you might have a problem.

And don't go out and buy a porsche to compensate!
 
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I am 26 and have a ton of gray hairs. You cannot notice them unless you look close. I have had grays since i was 18 years old. Hopefully i keep random sporadic gray hairs and dont grow a full main until im in my 50's or 60's
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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