Should I bang my bpd ex

[captain55]

i have to see my bpd ex this week to settle some legal issues.

I already know she’s going to be dressed hot as ****. I’m not going to lie it’s been five months since I’ve talked to her and the anger has turned to be genuinely feeling sorry for her. This is also what scares me...me hating her guts is what was keeping me from ever looking back after I left her despite that I’m attracted to her. A revenge **** would be nice but I know it’s not worth it.

Any advice on how to stay strong through this when I show up at her house and she’s in tight jeans and heels....I can already tell she’s going to be trying to seduce me most likely. And I can already hear that little voice in the back of my head telling me maybe she’s changed and realize what shes lost. This is going To be very difficult for me

 

[wifehunter]

Avert your eyes, and pretend she looks like your favorite fat chick in this picture:

 

[Billtx49]

i have to see my bpd ex this week to settle some legal issues.

I already know she’s going to be dressed hot as ****. I’m not going to lie it’s been five months since I’ve talked to her and the anger has turned to be genuinely feeling sorry for her. This is also what scares me...me hating her guts is what was keeping me from ever looking back after I left her despite that I’m attracted to her. A revenge **** would be nice but I know it’s not worth it.

Any advice on how to stay strong through this when I show up at her house and she’s in tight jeans and heels....I can already tell she’s going to be trying to seduce me most likely. And I can already hear that little voice in the back of my head telling me maybe she’s changed and realize what shes lost. This is going To be very difficult for me

If she has a personality disorder, she has not changed and you know that. Disregard her if she tries a hoover routine, and don’t stick your **** in crazy again.
NAMI classifies BPD as a mental illness.

 

[devilkingx2]

i have to see my bpd ex this week to settle some legal issues.

I already know she’s going to be dressed hot as ****. I’m not going to lie it’s been five months since I’ve talked to her and the anger has turned to be genuinely feeling sorry for her. This is also what scares me...me hating her guts is what was keeping me from ever looking back after I left her despite that I’m attracted to her. A revenge **** would be nice but I know it’s not worth it.

Any advice on how to stay strong through this when I show up at her house and she’s in tight jeans and heels....I can already tell she’s going to be trying to seduce me most likely. And I can already hear that little voice in the back of my head telling me maybe she’s changed and realize what shes lost. This is going To be very difficult for me

the fat that you're intentionally trying to bone a crazy chick tells me that she has you wrapped around her finger

 

[Serenity]

Should I put my d!ck in a grinder?

Same question, different context.

 

[051AV]

You want to be John Bobbitt? you should know by know by now BPDs have a thirst for revenge, you will wake up with a nasty surprise. Once a BPD is out of your life you make it permanent. The second scenario the police show up to your door saying your under investigation for rape of Ms **** ****. I haven't heard from my BPD ex for a couple years now I like to keep it that way I doubt she will ever come back because she can't control me like she can with other men. She couldn't ever control me, one of the reasons why our relationship was nothing but drama and fights.

 

[GoodOne123]

It's been 5 months....

My bet is that in that time frame she has definitely banged/sucked off a good number of other guys.

Considering this, it would be a bit desperate of you to go out of your way for a bang.

 

[derby1]

OP is obsessed with her. its all his posts are about, she will seduce him, hes not strong enough to act aloof or indifferent

or he could try aloof and indifferent, use a comment glassguy put the other day "id rather you not hug or kiss me im going out later dont wish to smell of perfume"


walk out with your steel balls bro it will drive her insane

 

[sosousage]

i have to see my bpd ex this week to settle some legal issues.

I already know she’s going to be dressed hot as ****. I’m not going to lie it’s been five months since I’ve talked to her and the anger has turned to be genuinely feeling sorry for her. This is also what scares me...me hating her guts is what was keeping me from ever looking back after I left her despite that I’m attracted to her. A revenge **** would be nice but I know it’s not worth it.

Any advice on how to stay strong through this when I show up at her house and she’s in tight jeans and heels....I can already tell she’s going to be trying to seduce me most likely. And I can already hear that little voice in the back of my head telling me maybe she’s changed and realize what shes lost. This is going To be very difficult for me

i think you need to seek exorcist help

 

[dude99]

i have to see my bpd ex this week to settle some legal issues.

I already know she’s going to be dressed hot as ****. I’m not going to lie it’s been five months since I’ve talked to her and the anger has turned to be genuinely feeling sorry for her. This is also what scares me...me hating her guts is what was keeping me from ever looking back after I left her despite that I’m attracted to her. A revenge **** would be nice but I know it’s not worth it.

Any advice on how to stay strong through this when I show up at her house and she’s in tight jeans and heels....I can already tell she’s going to be trying to seduce me most likely. And I can already hear that little voice in the back of my head telling me maybe she’s changed and realize what shes lost. This is going To be very difficult for me

Should you? No.

You even said yourself it's not worth it.

Will you? Probably.

 

[captain55]

It's been 5 months....

My bet is that in that time frame she has definitely banged/sucked off a good number of other guys.

Considering this, it would be a bit desperate of you to go out of your way for a bang.

I agree it would be desperate to go back only because she is a BPD and there are too many hot women that don't have BPD ......not because she has possibly been with other guys. I mean she never cheated on me and I made the decision to break up with her. Now If a man breaks up with a good woman (not saying my ex is) and realizes he ****ed up and wants her back, it does not make him weak for sleeping with her after she has been intimate with someone else. Now if the chick breaks up with the guy because she wants to **** other guys.... that's another story.

Would it ever be the same sleeping with an ex after she has been with other people? Of course not...but for me it would really depend on if I was the one who left her or not. Then again so many women out there, better to just move on.

 

[captain55]

You want to be John Bobbitt? you should know by know by now BPDs have a thirst for revenge, you will wake up with a nasty surprise. Once a BPD is out of your life you make it permanent. The second scenario the police show up to your door saying your under investigation for rape of Ms **** ****. I haven't heard from my BPD ex for a couple years now I like to keep it that way I doubt she will ever come back because she can't control me like she can with other men. She couldn't ever control me, one of the reasons why our relationship was nothing but drama and fights.

I wonder how really hot BPD's handle guys like us. I mean they're used to every single ex trying to get back with them at some point....what happens when a guy doesn't give a ****? Has to drive them nuts. I loved my ex but I never went back to her, despite her numerous hoover attempts.

 

[Spaz]

I agree it would be desperate to go back only because she is a BPD and there are too many hot women that don't have BPD ......not because she has possibly been with other guys. I mean she never cheated on me and I made the decision to break up with her. Now If a man breaks up with a good woman (not saying my ex is) and realizes he ****ed up and wants her back, it does not make him weak for sleeping with her after she has been intimate with someone else. Now if the chick breaks up with the guy because she wants to **** other guys.... that's another story.

Would it ever be the same sleeping with an ex after she has been with other people? Of course not...but for me it would really depend on if I was the one who left her or not. Then again so many women out there, better to just move on.

U r rationalising here.

And it doesn't bode well for you having these thought's.

It can only lead you back to square one.

You know that.

But yet you can't get over her hold.

She played you good and phucked up your soul.

When u r phucked up you cannot think and act coherently.

You r forewarned.

 

[djthiago1]

Ex? Ew.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Shes got your hamster wheel spinning dude.

Dont you have other women in your life who arent manipulative cluster B?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

There are billions of women in the world, settling with someone you know is a manipulative mental wreck really doesn't make sense.

 

[Roober]

Damn dude... why is this even a question? Are you just wasting your time here?