Should I ask this girl to prom?

[JCKey618]

I go to this program every week and this girl I know is in it. We have been friends for about 8 months now (but I have never talked on the phone with her or her with me until this week and that was to set up our date this weekend) and we only see eachother that one day out of the week, so even though I consider her a friend, I think I am far away from the dreaded 'friend zone.'

So, this girl I'm talking to (visit this thread for a little backstory: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=74465 , it's pretty obvious she's really in to me.

Should I ask her to prom? My prom is May 27th and I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago and haven't really looked for a prom date since then. This girl I'm talking to now really seems to like me and I'm pretty confident that we are going to become more serious. But how serious do you have to be to ask someone to prom?

BTW, she's a junior at another school, but she knows a few people in my senior class. Really, whether she would go or not is not really an issue. I'm wondering if it is too late to ask her. Prom is in just under 3 weeks away....

 

[duttylove]

just ask her dude, if she says no then your not going with her, if you dont ask her then your not going with her. cut the dillydallying and give your self a chance

 

[JCKey618]

I know I have a chance. But I don't know if it's rude or thoughtless to ask someone such short notice.

Also, I don't want to scare her off. Even though I know she really likes me, I met this other girl at Dartmouth, made out with her, and she started talking about me coming to her prom and it turned me off so much that she was getting so serious so fast. But then again she lives in LA and I live in DC....

 

[thefonz]

you aren't gonna scare her, you broke up with your g/f and you just need to find another date to go to the prom with.....ask her

 

[libre]

Go ahead

Go ahead. Ask her. It isn't rude at all. It shows confidence on your part, that is all. She will like that and of being asked. If she can't make it she'll tell you. What will result is part of maturing for both of you.

Have a good life young man.

 

[JCKey618]

Should we atleast go out on the first date first? It was supposed to be yesterday but her family decided to go out of town for mother's day last minute.

We rescheduled for this weekend but by then prom will only be 2 weeks away....

 

[libre]

Don't worry

Ask her for the prom right now so that she can prepare herself for it. Girls like to be asked when possible in advance so that she can plan the dress that she will wear, worry about her hair, talk to her girlfriends about it, ... and also ask her out on the same occasion.

She'll be glad you did. Don't worry she will not think this is too fast. She's young yet and she has no preconceived idea about a particular protocol for you to follow.

Try not to worry. Just ask her. Girls like confidence in a man.

 

[JCKey618]

She said of course

 

[libre]

Great

Great! Have fun. This girl looks like she knows what she wants. Don't rush things for sex, Love with the big L and the rest. Just think of having good clean fun. Everything will fall into place naturally and in good time.

And for the sake of both of you, always keep condoms with you at all times. You never know when it will happen and you wouldn't want her to get pregnant. Young woman are extremelly fertile and yes they do get pregnant quite frequently on their first experience. But, don't press her, she will come to it in good time.

Have fun and a good life young man.