"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should I ask this broad out? is this creepy?

TheGambino

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Dear fellow DJ's,

Today at work a trade representative came in from another company that delivers some high tech systems that for in the bathroom. She is the deputy of a company we work with. Were not going to see her very often, maybe once, twice a year or we call her once or twice a year to ask something about the product.

I met her today and she gave a short class about her product. She is stunning in my opinion, I don't like to put women on a pedestal but she looks classy, has a beautiful smile and she's a business woman. I like that.

I'm a salesman myself ofcourse.

Anyway when she came I had a small talk with her about carnaval. She lives in a city that's known for the big carnaval parties and we had a great laugh about that and I saw that she enjoyed it. She also looked at me the whole time, smiling and go on. Well after the short class she gave her card and told us you can call or text me whenever you want if you got any more questions. I couldn't make my interests clear in front of clients that were walking around, but I told my boss I digged her lol, he doesn't give a sh1t if I ask her out or not. He laughed about it.

Anyway she gave her card to my collegue and me and when I saved her number in my phone I exidently called her. She called back and I told her ''well I saved your number, I always do that with deputies so I can call them whenever I'm in the showroom talking to customers and I'm in need of more information that I don't know'' She said perfect no problem and I hung up.

ANYWAY bro's.

I could hit her up on whatsapp or facebook to say this ''Hey *dududu you left a great impression on me with that cute smile, how about a drink or two whenever I'm in your city'' (Im going there next week for a party of my friend)

Should I go for it?

And as I said, she is not part of our company she is a deputy of a company we worth WITH. We sell her companies product in our showroom like a 100 other products from other companies. She is a small part of the pie.

Anyway she's cute, she has a model face and just the girl to ripp appart. I don't care about work related stuff i wanna know are the curcomstances good enough to ask her out and is this creepy after a 10 min business related small talk, we were a bit flirty though haha?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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usernamedox11

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Well, it's business. Of course she will be friendly. It doesn't mean anything.

I wouldn't message her. Next time you see her, just start some small talk with her and see where that goes.
 

Shift

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Tread carefully, you don't want to get fired for sexual harassment. I think it's fine to message her with a bit of small talk, but I would refrain from messaging her anything flirty. After some casual small talk, I would mention that you're going to be in town and would like to meet for a drink or two. Gauge her interest level and escalate from there
 
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