should I ask my fvck buddy to be my gf???

[skip2mylou781]

I got 2 consistent fvck buddies (i.e. I see each one once or twice a week and we always fvck), 1 of them has been my "gf" from day 1 (cuz she wanted it and i tagged along just so i can get good pvssy)

but the other one has been STRICTLY for ****ing, we have been doin this for 3 months now and seemingly nothign emotional at all is attached, and despite her being very hot, i noticed the sex was gettin a lil worse as time went on AKA i wasnt gettin as turned on anymore. But 2 nites ago, somehow someway she was sweeter to me and we did get a lil romantic feeling, and she even said shed like me no matter wat, and im very trustworthy and she cant wait to go to an amusement park with me in 3 weeks (i offered, she was THRILLED)

so, because of this escalated feeling of romance, when we ****ed that time around, it was MUCH better and i enjoyed it very much.

so the question is, should i just keep doin wat im doin and ****in her and not caring at all, or SHOULD I ASK HER TO BE MY GF? (sex is better to me with more emotions)

(note: she asked me a week ago if ive been with anyone since me and her started goin at it, adn i said no lol)

 

[d9930380]

Why are you asking us?

You know the score, if you ask and she refuses: chances are it will screw up her being your FB, if you don't ask you won't get.

But it sounds like she wants that as well.

 

[skip2mylou781]

its just i KNOW from sosuave and the bible and everything to "never" ask a girl to be your gf and to have HER bring it up FIRST- but we been ****in for 3 months now and i really am not sure in this case if i can just break that rule, cuz i do **** her good and things have only been gettin better, not worse (we get along real well too when we talk, not a single fight!)

 

[pooparu]

its just i KNOW from sosuave and the bible and everything to "never" ask a girl to be your gf and to have HER bring it up FIRST- but we been ****in for 3 months now and i really am not sure in this case if i can just break that rule, cuz i do **** her good and things have only been gettin better, not worse (we get along real well too when we talk, not a single fight!)

Well bro, if you wanna keep ****ing around, and you don't mind lying (though i don't think u should), then go for it, the emotional attachment she gets will make it that much better.

But if you enjoy her company, and actually care about her, then maybe you should go exclusive for a lil bit, and if it doesn't work you can always go back to messin around witout her knowing right?

 

[skip2mylou781]

i havent told her how i feel about her AT ALL, ecept for ****in her, kissing her, and cuddlign and w/e (sosuave says, speak with ACTIONS, not WORDS) and knowing women, i get a feeling her IL will drop if she thinks im really interested, but at the same time, sex is MUCH better when i feel an emotional connection (which i felt last time with this girl cuz she was majorly hinting romantic shyt on me)

dunno dunoo

 

[d9930380]

skip - she is asking you in her way! She's sending you all the signals if you have read it right, that is. It's her job to send signals and YOUR job to act on them.

I think maybe the problem you have is that you aren't sure of her signals! Unfortunately that's allways the problem, she's not going to go over the top incase you don't feel the same way and ASKING might start her denying it incase you don't feel the same way and then you will winp out not wanting to ruin what you have - losing the opportunity for ever.

If you want her and having her is worth losing her as a FB then GO FOR IT. Don't be wishy washing, let her KNOW for sure how you feel. If she feels the same way then she will reciprocate, if she doesn't - oh well that's the chance you take. You've played enough games up to this point.

 

[skip2mylou781]

man with her, shes the case of a typical slut

i.e.

I met her at a club, we were ****in and she slept over the SECOND time she saw me, so automatically im assuming im not THAT special and she prob does that often, yet she told me shes had only 6 partners and "never did that kinda thing b4, and she didnt kno why she trusts me so much so fast"

also when shes not with me, shes always "out with people", which leads me to think shes just ****in around behind my back just like i **** around behind hers.....but these little hints shes givin me, they are ACTUALLY CONFUSING ME, and i thought iw as GOOD at playin this game with girls

 

[pooparu]

Woah, d99 is talking about something totally differetn from me.

Of course don't tell her your feelings, if you want, you are right, SHOW her, but telling her? This is a basic concept and I'm sure skip knows that ****, he's not going to go pour out his heart to some girl.

It seems like you have finally reached a challenge, one of those girls that really knows how to play the game right.

Don't worry about that **** bro, ****ing enjoy that, most *****es just respond to regular game and that's it, but she's playing it back with you, this is your challenge, the yin to your yang, and some other gay analogies I don't feel like thinking of.

I don't suggest rushing into anything, but keep playing with her, she's obviously playing back.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Skip this is easy bro.

Remember in one of m threads I said the reason that guys get cheated on, get their hearts broken, etc...in relationships, is because they take something that was just "sex" and try and turn it into something else.

Girl-friend/Boy-friend

The "Girl" part is the lust, the sex, the ONS. This is the natural attraction that brought you to together to fvck. At this point in the relationship, you are ONLY fvck buddies.

The "friend" part takes TIME TO BUILD. See, a Girl-Friend, is actually that....shes a girl I am fvcking thats also my "best friend." You don't become best friends with somebody in a short amount of time.

In order to be someone's best friend, you know just about everything about them and they know everything about you. You KNOW they got your back and you can TRUST THEM, because you both been through some things together.

That's your best friend.

Skip remember, there's nothing wrong with some fvckin women and keeping them as "friends with benefits" without being in a serious relationship. Currently, you have no relationship to build on because you are only at the "girl-part" or the fvckin part. Let time go by and see if she is really "for you" and "loves you" by seeing if she has your back and if you can trust her. But for now, keep fvckin her, no relationship.

DJF

 

[skip2mylou781]

lol wouldnt it be sad if she came to me one day and said "so i been seeing this other guy too for a while and he asked me out, im gonna go be his gf"

but nah seriously, if u saw my thread before on HOW TO KEEP A GIRL (aka ****in her like she never been ****ed b4), shes 1 of the girls i refer to in that post......cuz shes deff hooked on comin to **** me, i make her drive to my house each and every time and in 3 months we seen each other about 12 times, but been out on only 3 dates (and after each of the 3 dates she slept over anyway)...........................sooo yea ****in her is good and all, but i guess all i can do now is NOT do wat DIDNT WORK in the past - which is tryin to move faster and gettin into a relationship

**** buddy she stays!

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

You can do the romantic stuff without going exclusive with ther.

 

[Tom Juan]

NO, BAD IDEA! If she would be your fvck buddy, she'd break your heart. She's nothing but a slvt. Fvck buddies aren't relationship material!

 

[BrokenLeftWing]

no, no, no, and heck no

 

[T Money]

you're a dirtbag.

 

[GSXR1181]

Like a friend of mine said one time when we asked y he didn't go out with this girl he was doing on a constante basis. He simple said, hey if she is willing to give it up without commentment from me, then y should I, more options for me. I agree

 

[ChampusMaximus]

like gsx said sluts are sluts my friend. enjoy them while they're there before they move on to the next guy.

 

[Consent]

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[madgame]

I was like in the EXACT same situation as you 3 years ago. This female friend of mine who had never seen her ex more than 3 or 4 times a week and was like not clingy at all dropped hints for me like I should watch closely while she got the plates for breakfast and stuff because shed like me to be there a lot more often from now on..and told me she wanted to do what we did EVERY SINGLE night from now on...and believe me man I was wondering like "geesh..I thought this would just be a **** buddy sort of thing, but well I do like her, too" so..my friends kept asking me cause they kept seeing me with her and I brought it up and....honestly, she might have been a severe case and maybe your f buddy isn't as strange as that, but I have never in my life seen such an abrupt change in human behavior...honestly..right now I remember this commentator talking about Michael Jordan, because I, too had "never seen anything like it" haha

oh yeah and she was a f buddy, just saying b/c that doesnt seem too clear from what i read...

However I think your chances to TURN her into a g/f (not TALK her into a g/f) seem to be as high as it gets if you don't **** it up.