"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I ask if she wants to be friend

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Atldude

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This girl showed a lot of interest initially but communication has dropped off. Should I ask if she just wants to be friend or if she wants to keep talking and see where things go? Or if I have to ask then i'm already a goner...

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if you have to ask, you're already a goner

Why the hell would you want to be her friend?
 
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From the title of this thread, I thought this was some reverse LJBF tactic.

Why do you ask to be someone's friend? That's creepy.
 
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