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hmmm okay i ll try something. I don't think i would be able to kiss her like that tho. I suck at this and would get too nervous.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
should i ask her to be my gf?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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My guide to kissing:
Make sure that you both are and have been having a good time, first of all!
At some point or another, you will find yourself (on its own or with a bit of pushing from you, you don't have to directly plan this just make sure you guys will be hanging out close to each other and it will happen) quite close to a girl, eyes locked, in a silence straining with sexual tension. This means KISS. It's your definitive green light. There was a method I read to try to look her in one eye, then the other, then her lips, and back to the eye, then kiss, but it doesn't matter all too much at this point. Glide in slowly (not super slow, but if you have the jitters or something trying for slow helps you not get jerky) and kiss. Wammo.
DO NOT MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY! It may not be perfect, but if a form of the above situation happens, go for it! FOR THE LOVE OF GOD GO FOR IT, YOU WILL FEEL GREAT IF YOU DO (IT WILL WORK, CLOSE POSITION AND GAZING INTO EACHOTHERS EYES GUARENTEES IT).
If you do somehow mess it up, all is not lost however. Wait for another opportunity if this happens.
If the end of the date happens or you're feeling suave and want it now, you can easily force the situation. If you're both having a good time and she likes you, it will work. Simply, when both of you are standing, go stand close to her in front of her and lock eye contact. Wammo, above situation. Gaze then kiss.
Make sure that you both are and have been having a good time, first of all!
At some point or another, you will find yourself (on its own or with a bit of pushing from you, you don't have to directly plan this just make sure you guys will be hanging out close to each other and it will happen) quite close to a girl, eyes locked, in a silence straining with sexual tension. This means KISS. It's your definitive green light. There was a method I read to try to look her in one eye, then the other, then her lips, and back to the eye, then kiss, but it doesn't matter all too much at this point. Glide in slowly (not super slow, but if you have the jitters or something trying for slow helps you not get jerky) and kiss. Wammo.
DO NOT MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY! It may not be perfect, but if a form of the above situation happens, go for it! FOR THE LOVE OF GOD GO FOR IT, YOU WILL FEEL GREAT IF YOU DO (IT WILL WORK, CLOSE POSITION AND GAZING INTO EACHOTHERS EYES GUARENTEES IT).
If you do somehow mess it up, all is not lost however. Wait for another opportunity if this happens.
If the end of the date happens or you're feeling suave and want it now, you can easily force the situation. If you're both having a good time and she likes you, it will work. Simply, when both of you are standing, go stand close to her in front of her and lock eye contact. Wammo, above situation. Gaze then kiss.
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ohh sounds good Intrextrovert. Love it. So if im standing in front of her.. we are looking into each other's eyes.. and it's silent, just go for it. Got it and thanks!
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ugh this sux, i never get time alone with her. We never really get to hang out alone at all.
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how should i use kino with her? Hug her whenever i see her?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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planting a kiss
1. She gives you a number, which means she has done it before and is not ashamed to let you know.
a) The number is lower than 5: Then, you lean in and say (within 3 seconds) "come here. Let me show you how it is done." Then kiss her.
b) The number is higher than 6: Then you again lean in, pull her closer and say " you naughty girl, come here let's see."
2. She does not give you a number because she is shy. She'd say some along the line "I don't know...", yet again, you being the DJ, you pulled her closer to you and say "alright, lets find out."
Hurray, you've succeeded in planting your kiss. Remember to do all this with great confident.
Good luck.
--Amoka
You're slowly putting yourself in the "friend" zone. If that's what you want, then hug her to convince yourself that you're kinoing. Think of the last girl you kissed; better yet, think of her as your "girlfriend" and you desire a kiss so you lean over and kiss her. Of course the moment has to be right. If you're shy and can't pull this then try this way. "How good a kisser are you".... pause for about 3 seconds then "on a scale of 1 to 10". Here are the outcome:keeprolling said:
1. She gives you a number, which means she has done it before and is not ashamed to let you know.
a) The number is lower than 5: Then, you lean in and say (within 3 seconds) "come here. Let me show you how it is done." Then kiss her.
b) The number is higher than 6: Then you again lean in, pull her closer and say " you naughty girl, come here let's see."
2. She does not give you a number because she is shy. She'd say some along the line "I don't know...", yet again, you being the DJ, you pulled her closer to you and say "alright, lets find out."
Hurray, you've succeeded in planting your kiss. Remember to do all this with great confident.
Good luck.
--Amoka
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lol you make it sound like a video game with a boring story mode lol. Good advice though thank you. What worries me is, what if she says "Wtf are you doing?" and backs away. lol
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Yeah, does that work for you amoka? I've had stuff too straight up out of the norm backfire on me even with interested girls (know that because I hooked up after damage control). I think if the girl gets moves like that pulled on her enough to have it not be too out of the ordinary it will work, but imo it's better to just go for it with most girls.
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yeah i think she would have that "wtf" response if i said something like that or did something like that. I like intrextrovert's perfect moment kiss idea but we're never alone and she's always grounded. I know she isn't ****ting me like that.
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the only time that perfect moment will come is during an outting
get her out during th weekend and do it...
if you can't get her out..then she isn't interested
get her out during th weekend and do it...
if you can't get her out..then she isn't interested
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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but i think she is, it's just that she can't go out at all. Like everyone knows she's grounded and stuff. I guess i gotta play it kool and wait till she can.
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So we're going out to watch a movie, but there are other friends going too! How do i make a move? Also.. i have a question, if we're both on a bus... sitting next to each other.. what should i do? Should i put my arm around her.. i've thought about that but ended up not doing it.
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stop being such an AFC
if you want to hold her hand, then take it.
if you want to kiss her, then work on raising the attraction level, be romantic, and kiss her.
do what you want,
you are the MAN.
if she likes you, she will go with it, and lOVE It
if you want to hold her hand, then take it.
if you want to kiss her, then work on raising the attraction level, be romantic, and kiss her.
do what you want,
you are the MAN.
if she likes you, she will go with it, and lOVE It
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ok damn..... you're all mean :[ but you're right.