"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should i ask her out?

asdfghjkl

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Hey, im not usually one to ask specific questions, in fact, im not one to usually ask questions at all. However, this time i kinda want some specific advice because i kinda have oneitis for this girl:rolleyes:

So, we have been doing some serious flirting for the past couple of weeks and shes definitely into me, but she kinda has a bf:whistle: Seriously, shes all over me with kino and i cant seem to do wrong in her book.(i always just f*** around with girls and sometimes they dont like it) I know its not really worth it to pursue a girl with a bf (ive been burned by this before) but its a LTR and they only see each other once a week.

Should i go for it anyway?, cause i dont wanna miss out, shes probably an HB9. Or should i just move on and maybe come back another day?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Victory Unlimited

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Yo,


Unless the dude she's dating is a 400 pound bodybuilder or Bruce Lee, I say ask her out?


Why? Because most girls with BFs think of them as nothing more than placekeepers. Many women just hold onto their current "lover" because they're waiting for the bigger, better deal.

And you, my friend, might just be it. But you'll never know until you make a serious pass at her by FIRST asking her out. That way if she accepts, you can see where it leads. And if she declines, you will KNOW that she's just a flirt or an attention whorre who is only fukking around with you to stroke her own ego.

Either way, you will know more THEN about how to proceed than you do now. Ask her out dude. Kill the mystery, Get at the truth. Ultimately, you'll feel better when you do.



Peace... one day.
 
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well to quote Red Hot Chili Peppers "Does she give u that funny feeling in ur tummy?"

Love Rolller Coaster- Red Hot Chili Peppers
 

KillaCam

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What we say doesn't matter, you know if you want to do it or not.

Either way, if she can drop her boyfriend to be with you, she can drop you to be with someone else. And it is justified if her boyfriend comes after you, big time.

Up to you.
 
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