"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I ask her friend?

The Great One

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Well, yesterday I asked one girl to prom and she said she didn't want to go with me. Today, I was talking to this other girl, who happens to be good friends with the first girl. Do you guys think I should ask the new girl anyway? The way I am looking at it is that I have nothing to lose, so why not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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build rapport first (your problem with the first chick) but after that what the hell you got nothin to lose
 

Dr. Jim

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Here's a line that may or may not work, it worked for me:

Jim: Whose taking you to formal?

HB7: No one.

Jim: Don't you dare call me a no one or else I might not take you to formal.

and she should get the message, and you're not asking her, your telling her, leading her.
 
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