"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I ask her friend?

The Great One

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Well, yesterday I asked one girl to prom and she said she didn't want to go with me. Today, I was talking to this other girl, who happens to be good friends with the first girl. Do you guys think I should ask the new girl anyway? The way I am looking at it is that I have nothing to lose, so why not.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dannowillbookem

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build rapport first (your problem with the first chick) but after that what the hell you got nothin to lose
 

Dr. Jim

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Here's a line that may or may not work, it worked for me:

Jim: Whose taking you to formal?

HB7: No one.

Jim: Don't you dare call me a no one or else I might not take you to formal.

and she should get the message, and you're not asking her, your telling her, leading her.
 
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