We were having some discusion in english class about a touchy subject and I said some very rude things cause i was trying to get a laugh out of the class. After I said it this girl that i have a thing for turned around and started to yell at me for what I said. The thing is what i said came out wrong and ended up sounding alot more derogitory than it was supposed to. I am almost positive that this girl had a thing for me, but after today she seemed pretty mad. Im not big on apologies but I think that one might be deserved in this case. Anyway im not really sure how to handle this so any help would be apreciated.
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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
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Should I apologize?
- Thread starter TheBeast
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
Only apologize to this girl if you're actually sorry for what you did. Do not under circumstances apologize to this girl only to get on her good side again. If you honestly feel bad about what you said, then yes, apologize.
I dont realy feel bad about what i said it was just her reaction that made me feel bad. Ill just not even bring it up tommorow when i talk to her. I dont even care that much cause I flirt with half the girls in that class. I just kinda felt like i might of gone to far.
Who cares what she thinks of you. Don't appologize, don't mention it. If she has a problem with what you said its HER problem not yours.
If she has some insecurity with some wise crack you said, she needs to solve it. Its not your responisbility to fix little ms. can't take a joke.
Don't let other peoples reactions stop you. As said by Robert Greene, any attention will end in good attention.
On a side note....
EWWW THE BEAST. nasty, why not get some natty ice, or some stones while your at it. Growse
If she has some insecurity with some wise crack you said, she needs to solve it. Its not your responisbility to fix little ms. can't take a joke.
Don't let other peoples reactions stop you. As said by Robert Greene, any attention will end in good attention.
On a side note....
EWWW THE BEAST. nasty, why not get some natty ice, or some stones while your at it. Growse
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
downfallofdisbelief
Don Juan
NO crap man, be one. remember, "its my way or the highway". Thats the best piece of advice one could give.
Ya today i just was like **** it and flirted with the other girls in that class. Im not even stressing over if it was to far or not. If she had a problem with it then ill let her. She kind ignored me today and so i decided to give her the weekend before I talk to her again.
wtf does that mean
The beast is another name for Milwakeess (Sp?) best. A kind a cheap nasty beer. Natural ice = natty ice, another NASTY beer. And stones are keystone light some people don't mind those but i hate them.
Avoid the first 2 like the plague.
Avoid the first 2 like the plague.