should i amog?

[ne0phyte]

been hooking up with this girl recently and she's really good friends with one of my female friend (let's call her X). the thing is, one of X's friend is a player. he flirts and will try to sleep with every girl he meets. he's definitely not my "bro" in the sense that he would back off if i told him i was talking to this chick.

the girl just recently met him and has told me that X has warned her about him and his player ways. she then asked me what i thought about him, but i wasn't sure how to play it so I didn't say much. Just a "he seems like a cool/nice guy". Should i be AMOG-ing the guy? or just play my game and focus on being alpha, and maintaining the frame, etc etc.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

That's tough..if she's into you she won't wander...even if he's "cool". Anytime I've flamed people with women in the past, they say "oh you're too cynical" (albeit I hear them b!tch about their female friends)...

I wouldn't make it a point to do too much (a) praise or (b) ****-talk about this guy...best to just let him fall into the abyss of no-talk land...the more you bring things up, especially in a sense of defensiveness or insecurity by this guy, you'll be putting ideas in her head.

If this guy starts actively macking on your woman that's a different story..

Just my $.02 cents, give it some time and see what others say...

 

[Scars]

Your girl is already curious about this guy, otherwise she wouldn't be bringing him up/talking about him. Heed my warning. Any signs of jealousy, or trash-talking will only help his game. This is the type of guy that let's haters do all of his work for him.

Don't be surprised if curiosity gets the best of home girl.

Think back long and hard. Have you ever had a girlfriend that just randomly brought up a story about some "creepy guy" who talked to her? Or she brought up a mutual guy friend in conversation and asked a bunch of questions about him? Initially she is trash talking about his creepy/assh0leish behavior, and you heard it talk about it more than once. Then all of a sudden, you're single, and she is with that guy.

I know it's happened to me in my earlier days, and I've seen a lot of related stories on these boards as well.

There's no need to flex on this guy unless he is deliberately disrespecting you (either by insults, or hitting on your girl). Just be a man. No need to walk around with a bird chest constantly when he's around. (Your girlfriend will pick up on this, sense you are a little intimidated, and she will be even drawn to him more.) Which I can tell you already are because you wouldn't be posting about this. Be you, be a man, just don't take any sh!t. If he tries to any slicky sh!t just shut him down right at the moment it happens.

-Scars

 

[ne0phyte]

good advice as always guys. just gonna play it cool and see how it goes.

 

[f283000]

Your girl is already curious about this guy, otherwise she wouldn't be bringing him up/talking about him. Heed my warning. Any signs of jealousy, or trash-talking will only help his game. This is the type of guy that let's haters do all of his work for him.

Don't be surprised if curiosity gets the best of home girl.

Yup. Neophyte you are already in a dangerous situation. The spark of curiosity has lit up in your girl's mind. When a girl is curious (ie: attracted) to a guy she will put herself into situations where he can make a move. Guys like this thrive on this.

The woman almost always goes for what her evolutionary detector senses is the alpha male of the tribe. As long as you don't show any jealousy and keep a strong game with her you should be fine but you should be alert.

 

[ne0phyte]

solid advice everyone. since we're still just "hanging out", do you think flirting with other girls when she's around would help the cause?