should i always be the one to text/call my gf first after the night we hung out?

[LoneWolf]

everytime so far that we've been out together, had sex etc, ive always had to text or call the next day or two to say i had a good time and usually arrange something for next week. is she just use to this and waits for me to text her cause she also tells me she had a great time when i do? i guess it would be nice if she texted next morning saying she had a good time but its not a big deal.

just wondering how it is with you guys and your gf's. do they text/call you after you two hung out the previous night?

 

[runner83]

In my experience, if a girl is into you big time, she won't be able to resist sending you messages within a day.

Messages like

"you were so incredible"

"I miss you holding me"

"Can't stop thinking about ya"

etc etc

And they happen any time from the first time onwards.

But also, the ones that fall for you the fastest, often the crazier they turn out to be.

Don't sweat it too much dude. A few months ago you were posting on here about some girl in another country who you had never meet being your girlfriend.

But you are moving forward and banging a chick for real. Keep at it!

 

[LoneWolf]

thanks runner83;

this new girl is very different. not to mention very busy pretty much everyday but i believe she's the type who waits for me to do everything. everytime we are out she's always asking me if this or that is okay. like i asked her what she wanted to drink and it was alcohol and asked me if its okay she drank it. or if we hang out with her friends she asks me is that okay. very soft personality. shes like a scared bunny rabbit and im the big bad wolf. seems like she would do anything i tell her. i even feel like shes scared to ask me things sometimes like a bit shy. but its cute.

i haven't had any "miss you" texts yet. it's still early in the relationship so im not worried yet. at least when i do text her i get "i had a great time by the way" - things like that. i just get lost the next day wondering if i should text again maybe shes waiting for it. or i might just not text this time and im sure she will. i expect a text tonight actually because we had a really good time last night and some good sex + she got one of my famous massages.