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I got a job as a certified personal trainer at this new gym. It use to be "total women". But now its just like a regular coed gym. Not many people 90% women at this time. So i met this other trainer last week who is a single mom with a jlo booty to die for. Un fuken believable!!!! She's about 5'2" The overall package is banging, but she comes with the baggage of 1 child. I dont know how old he or she is

Last week, i ran into this guy at this gym. He is recently divorced with custody of his 3 children. He's 31 living with his mom with the 3 doing tile work as his job (side work)He's about 5'8" with a good muscular build. I barely know him, and havent seen him in a year. He talks about this chic, saying "we are just friends for about 2 months now"..Basically he hasnt made a move on her. He says they talk when ever they are at the gym together, but he told me nothing ever happened. They are just friends

Tonite im working. Both him and her are their. She is with a client, and me and him were talking. He ends up leaving, and she is working with another client, her friend. Im in between clients, and i do a full body workout. Im 6'5" 220 at about 8% bf. So im in a t-top. Im working out and she's about 20 ft away tossing her hair around. Im doing bar dips and she walks right by me..phat azz and all up to the counter, while her client is doing crunches. She walks back by me and smiles and says hi. She glances over at me through out the nite, directly and off the mirror. We spoke for a little bit, before she left. I asked her a few questions about herself. SHe Kinda was being a *****. Dont know why, maybe daycare or something. At the counter her friend (client) was looking at me too. Its like they were probably talking about me?
I dunno..just an assumption

Im trying to figure this out on what i should do. I want to tap that azz all day long. My friend hasnt made a move on her in 2 months. I dont know if i should just play it cool. I know she gets jocked all the time, so i dont want to just pursue her. This is the first nite, we were both on the floor together. How long should i wait things out? He knows i like her azz, so now he might be me to the spot? I dunno
 

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First off the simple answer is Never get involved with girls at work.

But you won't listen to that advice so the next answer would be get a grip on your self and talk to her, C+F, bit of kino, get her home phone number.

But you'll blow it because you haven't got the confidence yet.

So the most constructive advice is get out and do a bootcamp.
 

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If she's throwing off signs, but acts like a b!tch when you talk to her, maybe you need to learn how to talk to women.

Also, grow some damn balls. Stop trying to appear uninterested/casual all the time...if you're into her, ACT like it. She'll let you know if she's not interested.
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
If she's throwing off signs, but acts like a b!tch when you talk to her, maybe you need to learn how to talk to women.

Also, grow some damn balls. Stop trying to appear uninterested/casual all the time...if you're into her, ACT like it. She'll let you know if she's not interested.
very true, you don't exactly need to tell the girl your intrested just ACT intrested, and she'll start showing you the same intrest if she is also into you.

otherwise she'll just blow you off and continue to act casual.
 

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SO basicallly you guys want me to act desperate? It was my first day there, and already..im trying to get with her? You want me to ask her her # on the first day??,, knowing that i'll see her again? I only asked her 2 questions. I asked her
1.how long has she been a trainer
2.What is her other job

Why is it wrong to ask her questions about herself? Isnt this site about how to make women come to you, rather than approach them and be desperate? Why move so fast? To me, that is work of an AFC. Why feed her with all this attention? Why not make her earn it?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You attract girls by spotting their body language, reacting to it and validating it, and encouraging more advances from them. That's what attraction means: she shows signs, you encourage them and draw her in.

Things like playing with her hair, showing her wrists, pointing her toes towards you when she sits or standing in a group, touching her neck and breastbone, all signs you need to respond to or mirror.

Ignoring the signs so as not to appear desparate just makes you appear naeive.

I'll recind my comment re your confidence. However, I still think you shouldn't be messing with girls at work. The fact that you want to could make it appear as if you aren't getting enough outside of work.
 

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Originally posted by FrankWank
SO basicallly you guys want me to act desperate? It was my first day there, and already..im trying to get with her? You want me to ask her her # on the first day??,, knowing that i'll see her again? I only asked her 2 questions. I asked her
1.how long has she been a trainer
2.What is her other job

Why is it wrong to ask her questions about herself? Isnt this site about how to make women come to you, rather than approach them and be desperate? Why move so fast? To me, that is work of an AFC. Why feed her with all this attention? Why not make her earn it?
ok then buddy, keep on your path and see how far the road takes you in the other direction. nobody said act AFC, we said act like your intrested

not tell her how much you like her, ***** if she doesn't hang out with you, beg for her phone number..
 
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