"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should guys shape their eyebrows?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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seanchai

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I'm an identical twin, and for the longest time when girls figured that out they'd try and find differences in our faces. A lot of the time they'd ignore the most outstanding ones (to me, at least - like I WEAR GLASSES) and say, "Oh, he has better eyebrows." So it's worth a shot.

I personally don't touch mine because I think they look pretty OK.
 

wunnaBsmooth

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I do....

I have mine done by a friend who is a hairdresser.
I've la*d more since I started doing that than I have in the 3 years previous....
Also, I get a LOT of compliments and girls actually start conversations with me about it.......... So it does work..........

No Uni-brows....... No pencil thin crap......... just a neat and tidy clean look!

As someone said earlier, wax 'em once in a while and pluck in between waxings...... it IS worth the effort.... You expect your women to Shave..... right?
 

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I have a "UNIBORW" and no i don't shape it......but then again, i'm not getting laid eather.
 

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its cool to shape them but not curved though so that it looks like a semi-circle, that just looks way tooooo female...jus get rid of the unibrow..trim them a bit if they're too bushy, and clean off the stray hairs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A lot of this discussion has to do with issues that 'hairy guys' in general have. I learned a long time ago that some women were literally repulsed by hairy guys (I can understand that with slobby, hairy guys), while some women were totally turned on by it, almost to the point of being a fetish.

It seems the strategy for hairy guys is to just be as clean cut as possible, embrace your hair (I wear a goatee), and realize who your 'market audience' is.
 
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