"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should a cuckolding wife lie because "it would be for the best"?

MatureDJ

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http://www.slate.com/articles/life/...y_another_man_but_she_s_saying_it_s_mine.html

A little after my wife and I reconciled from our separation, we discovered she was pregnant. Although we were having marital problems, we were going through marriage therapy and I genuinely wanted to give it another try. I was, of course, over the moon about becoming a father. Things were starting to look up, until I discovered an ultrasound scan report which showed my wife was further along in the pregnancy than she told me. After a bitter, heated argument she confessed she conceived the baby with someone else while we were separated. She said she thought she was acting for the best because she knew I would be happy about the pregnancy. (One of the many reasons why we initially separated was because I wanted to start a family and she didn't.)
So let's see ... The husband wanted to start a family, but the wife didn't? (When the F does that ever happen?) And then when she gets a little freedom (albeit within the confines of "counseling", in which the least she could do is keep her damn legs closed! :box: ) , she starts the family with someone else, and then tries to pawn it off to the re-husband for the reason that "it would be for the best" since he he would be happy about the pregnancy? WTF? :cuss:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Things like this should be punished from the law, Im not kidding.

Not only for a matter of justice but also because the wrong man would kill them all, so there are also prevention reason.

Apparently to cheat on a woman is a free ticket for half of your money (where fines are used as punishment in western laws) while if she cheats on you and force you to pay for her and her lovers son while at the same time implicitly stopping you to continue your blood line...its perfectly fine for "everybodys good".

I dont like at all religious people,sure I respect their imaginary friend but at some point Im asking myself if a stronger muslim presence in Europe is really a worse option than what is going on right now.
I mean I can fake being a muslim but I cannot fake being a woman when it comes of law and discrimination.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Things like this should be punished from the law, Im not kidding.
Agreed. This type of behavior should be categorized as criminal fraud.
 

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In my country is against the law to register another person's child as your own, and this can give 2 to 6 years in jail, and you cannot do that even if you are aware that you are not the father/mother.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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to answer the mature post, yes she would lie when is the best.... for HER, possible she don't even know the "father" full name hence no way for her contact him or he is poor.

@muscleman, meh maybe this can wake him up, if not its his loss.

also the law on your guys side are that biased to woman side? or is just what you guys saw? here even though some laws are mostly not used you could sue her for cheating on marryage, divorce her in case she won't have sex with you, and all that would be her fault with would hinder any hold on childrens in case of childrens. well that is things I looks up here, the only thing who really kills here is child support but other then that, also so save all money you have to make a pre nup.
 
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