You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THIS!!!! ^^^^^^^Danger said:Nobody made any money, except for the pensioners.
What actually happened wasn't even the fault of the current CEO's, although they did nothing to mitigate the disaster.
The albatross of pension funding is what killed the car companies, so the answer was to create two separate entities, one with all of the debt, and one without the debt (pension overhead).
.Gov (the taxpayer) takes on the liabilities of the Union's pension, the companies gets saved, and .gov gets to claim that the car companies were "saved" and all of the money lent to the debt-free corporations is paid back.
Oh, and the bloodsucking tic unions still get their ridiculous amount of money for putting on lugnuts.
And more specifically, the rising cost of health care is what made those pensions get so expensive. When those pension agreements were created decades ago, I don't think anyone had any clue about how the costs would shoot up exponentially over recent decades.Danger said:The albatross of pension funding is what killed the car companies
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.