You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
THIS!!!! ^^^^^^^Danger said:Nobody made any money, except for the pensioners.
What actually happened wasn't even the fault of the current CEO's, although they did nothing to mitigate the disaster.
The albatross of pension funding is what killed the car companies, so the answer was to create two separate entities, one with all of the debt, and one without the debt (pension overhead).
.Gov (the taxpayer) takes on the liabilities of the Union's pension, the companies gets saved, and .gov gets to claim that the car companies were "saved" and all of the money lent to the debt-free corporations is paid back.
Oh, and the bloodsucking tic unions still get their ridiculous amount of money for putting on lugnuts.
And more specifically, the rising cost of health care is what made those pensions get so expensive. When those pension agreements were created decades ago, I don't think anyone had any clue about how the costs would shoot up exponentially over recent decades.Danger said:The albatross of pension funding is what killed the car companies
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.