"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shotgun Approach on tinder

Bingo-Player

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i feel im not really getting the most out of tinder

ive tried all different types of text game on there but everything seems to lead to a dead end or a next

tinder girls arent looking for a "chat" or to "meet"

they either want sex or attention and ive decided i want the answer faster

over the next couple of days im going to use the shotgun approach of

" hey ive got a room at XYZ come over and we'll get to know each other"

due to the illogical nature of women im not expecting anything from it , but its better than wasting a day's worth of idle conversation to get to the same point

what you guys think ?

got any other ideas to cut through the nonsense
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dustmuffin

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I would ask them out straight away. The direct approach works for me. No idle chit chat.
 
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